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New Profile Update from BettyAnn
Aug 26, 2015 - 9:04 pm
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I'm a part time girl who loves to dressup and go out into the world as Betty. I take great pride in my appearance and would never go out half dressed. Love Las Vegas and was going there 2x a year but changed jobs and havn't been back since. Halloween week is a favorite time to visit. Hope to meet some new girls in Vegas to hang out with.

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All my life I wanted to express my female side but pursued a life as a male until about 5 years ago I introduced "Roxy" to the world at large. I'm having so much fun as a woman going to clubs, T-Girl group events, dating as a woman, etc. I still live primarily as a male for work/family/athletic competition so truly embody the "Two Spirit" lifestyle the Native Americans talk about. So at some point my female side may take over as the desire is ever increasing
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Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

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Roxy Stevens

City: Overland Park
State: Kansas
Country: United States
Sex: Crossdresser
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All my life I wanted to express my female side but pursued a life as a male until about 5 years ago I introduced "Roxy" to the world at large. I'm having so much fun as a woman going to clubs, T-Girl group events, dating as a woman, etc. I still live primarily as a male for work/family/athletic competition so truly embody the "Two Spirit" lifestyle the Native Americans talk about. So at some point my female side may take over as the desire is ever increasing
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Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

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New Profile Update from danapreston
Aug 21, 2015 - 11:32 pm
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danapreston

City: Denver
State: Colorado
Country: United States
Sex: Transgender M2F
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hi i'm dana

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New Profile Update from Lisa Blaze
Aug 21, 2015 - 6:51 am
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Lisa Blaze

Real Name: Lisa Blaze

City: Peoria
State: Arizona
Country: United States
Sex: Transgender M2F
Age: 49
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I Guess i shouldn't really update this now.

Just going to say. Thank You too all my WildSide Sister's for your Warmth Caring and Love. After Learning of the passing of our Sister Maddy...

God Bless All Of You.
L.isa Blaze...
I was gonna add on to this. But who really read's this shit anyway lol...

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Lana-lu Those shoes are Bad-Ass love them, girl your braver than me walking in those spikes...you go girl
Apr 3, 2013 - 4:01 pm 3 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Lisa Blaze Thank you Lana. lol I just saw this. There not so bad lol.
Sep 5, 2013 - 8:27 pm 1 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Katrina Hey Lisa,i still keep having flashbacks from Wildside,and you saying Maddy in your best english accent! Was so funny,and sums up how you are.Cant wait until next year xxx
Jun 13, 2014 - 3:43 pm 3 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Stacie Underwood I do, Lisa.
Aug 21, 2015 - 6:51 am 1 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate

What Happed to Bernadette Today?
Jul 31, 2015 - 1:49 pm
Hi
Were to start? from the being ? No!  
I am a transgender heterosexual male 55 years old. I fell in love with the most wonderful women in the world, the only problem is. I will have to give up CDing. I am totally torn between to loves, the really me, and the women I want to spend rest of my life with. I have purged 4 times in my life. The last time, I ended up on prozac and xanax. I have told her this, She told me that this It is fine and she loves me with all her heart. As long as she doesn't see me dressed! So I can dress in the closet I don't blame her, we both fell in love before I told her. I was lonely, and if I would have told her when we first meet? She would have been gone in a heart beat. I am so stupid! August 10 will be 1yr and 10 months that we have been dating And I want to move in with her and start are life together. So why can't I stop crying?
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Andrea Scarlett Dear Bernadette, hopefully you can find a happy medium through all of this. Best wishes, Andrea
Aug 19, 2015 - 4:10 pm 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Joan Bernadette, I am terribly sorry that you didn't share your dark secret with your fiance when you first got together. I understand that you've purged four times, and been on meds. If you were on meds, your were probably seeing a counselor, therapist or psychiatrist, and yet, you still haven't come to a healthy resolution around this issue in your life? Until you resolve this, it may haunt you for a long time.

You haven't totally embraced, made a home for, or become friends with the woman (Bernadette within) who lives inside you. If you had integrated Bernadette into your 'persona' you might have shared her with your fiance early on, or moved on and found a fiance who would.

Be true to yourself!! The most important thing, first and foremost, is to love yourself in an unconditional way (simply put? I am Okay, just the way I am, warts and all!!). Some folks would say "If you can't love and accept me just the way I am, warts and all, maybe you should leave, because I am strong enough to stand on my own two feet, and I am not prepared to spend the rest of my life, turning myself inside out, like some kind of human pretzel just to please you and keep you by my side!"

True unconditional love is not the same as romantic love, infatuation, or lust. Unconditional love endures, it is not ego driven, it is spiritual in nature, some folks call it Christ consciousness, without getting all religious. Your fiance is setting conditions/ultimatums before you've even gotten married? "It's either me or your frocks?" How kind, caring, considerate or loving is that? You are crying because you are torn, you are conflicted over this decision, and that's perfectly understandable. You've purged four times and ended up on meds the last time? I don't mean to sound callous, but what's to stop you from ending up on meds, if you purge one last time so you can get married? How are you going to feel in five years if this marriage doesn't work out and you end up divorced? Not a pretty prospect!  but you really need to resolve this situation so you can move forward with your life regardless of your decision. I would strongly encourage you to get some professional help, and make peace with yourself, in reaching this important decision.
Goddess loves you!
Joan
Aug 20, 2015 - 2:14 am 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate

New Profile Update from Joan
Aug 17, 2015 - 8:55 pm
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I've always had a covert attraction to all things feminine, but suppressed it due to 'gay' anxieties, and my career as a deep sea diver. After many years as a lapsed Catholic, and a couple years before I retired from the 'roughie toughie diving world' I connected with nature spirituality/paganism because I had always felt that deity was all around me, not just in some building/church administered by an individual/priest who had been sanctified by a Hierarchic organization. I wanted a level playing field spiritually!
I started studying pagan ways, worshipping/practicing quietly on a ship in the Persian Gulf, creating my own rituals for Full Moon and other pagan holy days like my birthday/Groundhogs Day. It was a pagan holy day long before Bill Murray Christianized it
I was relating to a feminine deity for a change, so much comfort there from a Mother Goddess who unconditionally loved, and a wild, noble male consort, the Horned God, protector of all. It was like 'coming home' to myself. Suddenly it was okay, and good for me to be wearing a frock, dancing like a child, exploring my femininity, and yes go on say it, my sexuality.
When I retired twenty years ago and left the Persian Gulf, I went to a Transformation Salon in London and had a 'makeover' day. I've been wearing panties 24/7 and 'dressing up' part time ever since. It took me years to figure out that I'm a sweet, submissive, kinky little minx. I'd love to dress up and play with girls, gurls, couples and men in that order. I enjoy oral, genital and anal play (especially strap on sex). I'm more interested in the sensual side of BDSM (teasing, torment, edging, restraints) with some impact play thrown in for good measure. I'm on FetLife as Joan_C if you want to know more about me. If you are in the Santa Cruz and/or SF Bay area feel free to hit me up. Let's get together for a chat and see if it leads anywhere!

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What Happed to CiCi Today?
Jul 28, 2015 - 10:21 pm
I'd like to share my Tedx Talk with all of my WildSide sisters. Thank you all for your inspiration and support!


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Pamela You're an amazing person.  That took a lot of courage.
Jul 29, 2015 - 1:25 am 1 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Andrea Scarlett Awesome on so many levels.
Jul 29, 2015 - 12:15 pm 1 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Lydia L So bold and inspiring. Thanks for sharing.
Jul 29, 2015 - 3:07 pm 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Stacie Underwood Sassy!
Jul 29, 2015 - 8:08 pm 1 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Nikki Belange Wow !!!!  ......... Speechless, ............ So proud of you, Cici
Jul 29, 2015 - 11:08 pm 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
McKenna Awesome, inspiring and just so honest.  You are the greatest.  I think your new last name is Jobs and you should release a new cell phone.  You pitched on par with the pitch master himself.  :)  And that's a very high bar!
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Bernadette Thank you CiCi. That was wonderful, you brought a tear to my eye. I just lost a freind
to a violent act. And I wish that day will come soon
Jul 31, 2015 - 11:36 am 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Sometimes Nicole Articulate. Inspiring. Impressive. We have come a long way, baby.
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Michelle That's awesome CiCi!  Much love and respect.
Aug 15, 2015 - 12:15 am 1 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
Joan Thank you for stepping up and stepping out, such an inspiration to us all!
Aug 17, 2015 - 6:23 pm