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  • SandyTg2's Introduction
    I just realized there is nothing in here about me. So here is one little tidbit.

    I have a massive fear of rejection. Imagine that from someone who is an exhibitionist, loves being fetished out in public and will get nude at the drop of a hat in front of anyone. I have such a fear of rejection I can't ask anyone out, for a kiss, to go back to my place or anything. I totally freeze up and just can't say anything to the person I am attracted to about getting together that might get any form of rejection.

    I have tried to get over this fear but nothing has worked. :( So it looks like it will have to be someone taking a chance and asking me out or to get together. Sad but true.

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    If you know deep down in your heart you were born in the wrong body...

    DON'T listen to others saying it is wrong.
    DON'T let others tell you you should be as you were born.
    DON'T let the possible loss of friends and family stop you
    DON'T let anyone convince you that God meant for you to be male/female. If there is a God and he is infallible then you are the way God made you and he meant for you to transition your outside to match who you are inside.

    DO seek out others who are like you for friendship and support. You have no idea how much they can help you and make you feel comfortable.
    DO join a transgender support group because that gives you a regular and stable place to talk with others about what you are going through.
    DO see a therapist that is well versed in working with transgendered people. I love my therapist as she has helped me through things no end.

    Finally, BE HAPPY!!!

    The only way you can achieve that is to be who you really are and revel in it.
  • Comments Left About SandyTg2
    cherrys - May 12, 2015 - 11:11 pm
    Hi Sandy let's go to the studios Thursday it will be fun 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    SandyTg2 - May 21, 2014 - 5:26 pm
    Fixed to the new sizes. :) 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    SandyTg2 - May 21, 2014 - 3:00 am
    Yeah, I know t is huge.  I will resize the image for this later. It will be big for anyone who updates their profile picture until I fix it. 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    ZOE B GOODE - Apr 29, 2014 - 7:48 pm
    Heya Sandy,  Love to see Godzilla either Friday or Saturday.  I need to fill in my LV days a bit...let's see how many manicures can I get in a week ?  I'll look forward to meeting you.
    Zo
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    Michala - Apr 12, 2014 - 8:29 pm
    I would ask you out in a wink
    :)
    Mitch
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    Lilith - Apr 17, 2013 - 12:54 am
    Thanks for posting all the current events. It is great to visit the site and see such news. Thanks for posting
    =)
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    Lyn Robbins - Apr 12, 2013 - 12:04 am
    Not to worry Sandy !   One can have fun mostly sober too.  You have to be your bubbly self.
    Pucker those lips and light up a flirt.  I am not a big drinker as of two years ago.
    My last Tequila bing made me spin like i was a 16 year old.  Whew........dizzy
    Wait a minute..........or was that Ditzy.  Ditzy girls are fun too !

    Hope to see you there.
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    Rachel_Hotty - Apr 11, 2013 - 11:04 am
    Or a bit of weed? 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    SandyTg2 - Apr 10, 2013 - 10:31 pm
    I was drunk for 7 years so that is not going to happen again. 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    Pamela - Apr 10, 2013 - 8:10 pm
    Rachel is absolutly rignt.  It always works for me too. 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    Rachel_Hotty - Mar 12, 2013 - 4:35 pm
    I know a way you could overcome the fear is by being to drunk to care! Has worked for me in the past 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    mitchj - Feb 18, 2013 - 6:24 pm
    Would be happy to ask you to dance  :) 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    Bernadette - Sep 21, 2012 - 1:19 pm
    Thank you Sandy your words brought a tear to my eyes 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    TanyaT - May 27, 2012 - 2:07 am
    Sandy,

    Not sure how best to send you a question here.
    My e-mail is getting "spammed" with notifications, but as far as i can tell, my profile does not have that allowed box checked.

    Thanks,
    TT
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    Divinyl - Nov 7, 2011 - 6:45 am
    Great new pic sets hon.  Never get to see your Domme side! 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    ginger candi - Sep 11, 2011 - 10:19 am
    i tried to use the email addy you give me on line, but couldn't make it work for me.  wanted to tell yo what a good looking lady you were. such a sexy look! 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    SissiBobbi22 - May 25, 2011 - 2:13 pm
    You are a sexy thing! 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    RickCapture - May 12, 2011 - 4:55 pm
    You look great in your images. 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate
    TaylorLee - Mar 7, 2011 - 9:36 pm
    Hi Sandy, looks like we go to the same fashion designer :) Hope to see you in Vegas, Taylor. 0 love 0 like 0 dislike 0 hate

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"The whole point of my gender transition was to free myself up. If something feels good, I'm not going to stop doing it because it doesn't fit someone else's notion of what a man is."
- David Harrison